可以用和外国人打交道的方式应用于中国人吗?

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最初由 九儿 发布


it is complex if u think it is. u think quite a lot of what others want from u. just learn to say "no" and "please". it works^^

chinese like to revenge..sometimes you simply cannot say "no" easily. and "please" can make people coming up with weird ideas of you, too.

Agree with harmatia's opinion, try to avoid, if cannot, just let it go.:)
one advantage of living abroad is that you don't have to be with them if you really don't want to ( business networks are exception, but that does not matter a lot with your personal life). Mostly you can depend on yourself for everything. It doesn't mean a good and broad human relationship is not useful, but you have more freedom in this schema.

想和中国人谈生意，先说说自己酒量如何？:D

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最初由 lolly 发布

That is the point!
It is one of the reasons why i put this thread.
I am used to thinking things in a direct way and solving problems in a direct and simple way as well.
I know it doesn't work with most of the chinese...but i just don't know how to deal with them in their way of thinking. = =
Getting to know the hidden purpose of others is a kind of pain, but alfter knowing it you have to treat them in a way which you don't like and can't show you true feeling is really annoying.

ohoh..i get ya.
yeh,itz much harder to deal with ppl who live in china than those who live abroad. 人心复杂,每个人的提防心很\很重,有些事要是表达得太直接会招麻烦:(

sometimes i feel ridiculous about how i dealt with ppl/things when i was in china, though i was so used to it.:rolleyes:

澳大利亚都是中国学生
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最初由 solid snake 发布

如果你是上海人的话
我就可以充分理解你这句话了

我是上海人~而且我是BIRD^^

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最初由 solid snake 发布
澳大利亚都是中国学生
相信我

我相信你:mad:

记得我朋友的朋友, 去澳大利亚第一学会的语言是粤语!